I talked to my old high school boyfriend about this subject since I knew he'd dated younger women. My husband is 22 years older than me. This article got me to remember all my anthropology classes and this makes perfect sense. These were prolonged, leering, predatory stares. Not only that, but the term is thrown out to belittle and shame.
My Ex is 9 years and 8 months younger than me. Do you have a friend who has always liked older men? As common as it is, we have a steady stereotype describing why younger women find themselves ultra attracted to men double their age. She will get to keep up with the latest in music, movies, fashion and media — something which she never had a chance while being burdened by the responsibilities of marriage, children and work. She was elegant, witty, acomplished, very sexual and drop dead gorgeous. Since we broke up I had enough time to travel, explore and meet new people. Infidelity in a relationship is something that happens from either party in a relationship at some point in time, when you start suspecting that your partner is cheating, you start losing trust in him or her. I have been asked if I was her father, her grandfather, I just smile.
For women seeing an older established man with a younger woman has the ability to make many women very insecure. I have never related to these things and I never will. That was a few years ago, but the experience made me realize that I seek older men a certain type, that is because they have experience, and the wisdom, confidence and emotional stability that comes with it. And instead of necessarily providing that for themselves, they seek it out through a potential intimate relationship. It was sickening, he would lie about everything. However, the longer you leave finding a strong genetic male and reproducing, the fewer suitors you will have. Women over age 40 are about two to three times more likely to have a stillbirth baby.
I listen to something he likes sometimes, and he listens to what I like sometimes. So, as an independent woman, I have been labeled a Gold Digger, whore, asked unbelievably insulting questions by strangers like 'what do you do for a living? Which is for that age okay I think. This makes them more fun-loving and spontaneous. Younger men are also less likely to be searching for this kind of serious commitment too soon. Yes, a girl sleep and date a wealthy guy.
There is no logic, no motive, nothing. And most marriages don't even last 13 years, so this concern is really academic in most cases anyway. We just love each other and care for each other truly and deeply. The playful romance, romantic outings and youthful love can make her feel like she is reliving her twenties. Its not just women our own age who are bothered. They are patient, forgiving and empathetic.
In fact, dating an older woman opens doors to various fun experiences where they can unwind. Now Husband is less than two years younger than me. I was in a situation where I came across an older man at my place of work. A key quality of an older woman is that she also learned how to cook. So, as we are attracted to people by scent, younger women smell better, also a key marker of their ability to bear children, hence what's reffered to as 'old people smell'. She would rather date a man who is a decade younger but looks almost her age.
We want to ensure healthy offspring. You look like a very special person. Some to prove that they can attract all males out there. But age ain't nothing but a number too. Some even swipe obsessively trying to find someone.
We became friends and there was obviously a mutual attraction but neither of us ever pushed the issue. As for my preference for a younger woman, I also am a swirler. He is all man, ie, loves sports, protective, competitive, cares about his appearance and health and not afraid that showing warmth and compassion all the time is not manly. I'm not sure what credentials you're referring to. My ex is a angry short Iranian man who I gave my love and four children and many wasted yrs to all for nothing, as he never appreciated me and was to controlling. People comfortable in their own space, making you comfortable in turn.