Talk about what happened afterward with your wife. I would be very uncomfortable with the snuggling thing, and would let them know that you play with who you choose. Our collection includes hundreds of thousands of free wants to be a pornstar porno video! And if you dont feel comfortable with it, then don't do it. If it's not fun to be out with them because of all these issues then it's time to move on or confront them and work it out. Everyone has to be on the same page. Me and my wife had always had a great sex life and one night during sex i asked her would she ever do swinging with me and she out right said no. Not to take it personal.
Does your wife want to do these things with the other husband, or is it just him wanting it? After that night we didnt really speak about it, and then a month later my wife asked me if we could go again, which shocked me. How my wife looks when we all dance close and she's loving it. They seemed to get annoyed if my wife mingled as she so often does. To be honest, my curiosity was drunkenly piqued. Alura So much in common? My best advice is that you should sit down and calmly discuss the subject of sex with him. Also I have one final unorthodox rule: don't make any rules for the encounter safe sex being he one exception.
So I was patiently waiting for her to turn things around without seeming too pushy. There was the experienced couple, my wife and my best friend. That was a few months ago. Suddenly, I remembered how Sharad had casually mentioned an online dating site where couples posted their profiles to meet together in an intimate setting. That is incredibly hot, but not something that she seems to be into either though. His wife started feeling up and making out with my wife and one thing lead to another and were on a full on swap. I didn't know the rules, so I got nervous and shut it down.
It brings up all those amazing feelings you get when dating someone new, but you still have the safety, support and love of your relationship. We reap what we sow. I say if it gives you pleasure and everyone truly is into it do what feels good. Most of your concerns are unfounded, the other couple is experienced. This is something that would only work and be fun if all the parties involved were on the same page and and just as excited about the prospect. This may have led her to believe that she was enough.
We actually did once have a couple state that this was a fantasy of theirs. I'm trying my best not to over analyze stuff and enjoy the moment. One night, standing in the middle of the dance floor, Kim spun away from Joe and pulled me close really close, nose-to-nose close and gave my ear a little nibble. What if you do this, and you're really not comfortable with it, but the other three want to make repeat performances? What if it happens this Friday? Why stay away from each other? She's not jealous if we have sex, but we weren't supposed to do it yet. It seemed they are agree to swap concept. I saw his face drop.
He took the phone back and proceeded to tell me there was more where that came from, and that his wife thought I was really hot. She would never leave me for the other guy. I had thought it was just a passing phase. I do think that if they're not honest about who they've been with, that could indicate they will lie about other things. Then two years ago i asked her and she said she'd come along the once if i really wanted her to, and i panicked a bit and didnt know what to say.
You are under no pressure to love what happened, even if you came. So I quickly forgot about being worried. I know its just for fun. Experienced swingers and those just curious about the swinging lifestyle are all welcome. I would be surprised if I didn't like it, but I guess you never know. What if it ruins your friendship.
We recently went on a weekend outing with them and attended a social on one of the nights. I do recall a case in which a wife suggested swapping because she was already cheating with the other man! But we both knew that is where it was leading. It was just kinda awkward at times. Number one, and I just posted to this effect yesterday, the intimacy of sleeping next to someone and cuddling, spooning, all that is just an intimacy that will not be shared with anyone other than Jay. Since then she's distant and off with me and she's changed so much. However, I'll tell you this: monogamy is a no go with us. Again, I think this is a newbie problem.