He said he wants me to be friends with her- I am trying but my is still here. You should call him on this, and do not attempt to spare his feelings, because he hasn't spared yours. I have been in your situation, and sadly it did not end very well. You can even make friends through internet. That he hangs out with a friend, who is female, and isn't hanging out with you, says a lot.
He also has a female agent…. Just be up front with him and tell him how much you love him,and how bad and hurtful it makes you fill when he does those things. Same goes for him regarding my male friends. This all makes me sick! Surprise him have him bring her to your house to meet! I dont want to be the bringer of bad news but i wouldnt be surprised if them two are having an affair,it has all the classic symptoms,and if he isnt having a sexual relationship with her,he will do. Trust your gut and go with it.
It is wrong for him to be this close with another female other than you, especialy since you and he have allready discussed this. I found out about the number of texts when he went over his limit. After the third pub event of her ignoring me and prancing round him like a preening idiot, I spoke to him about it. Well, I then noticed on the cell phone bill that these calls only occurred between 8am and 5pm when he was at work-- away from me. You can get in touch with him through or +2347038111854 Last week prophetkalito the great spell caster brought my husband home to me suddenly after being divorced for a few years. A national public speaker on women's issues and family development, Gayle Peterson practices psychotherapy in Oakland, California and Nevada City, California. So as far as the other women, he's not interested, and I'm not worried I think he could tell them off better than I can, haha.
Please women, please, every single one of you deserves true love. He promised he would keep things texts on a more professional level. I overheard her a few weeks ago calling me in the toilets to her friend … just so she knew I'd heard her … I actually told her what I thought about her comments in a really nice way. Email: When my spouse left me,I was praying for marriage restoration. Establish a safe atmosphere for open sharing and discussion.
Ie It's lovely to see you again and I'm flattered you still want to be friends with my husband and that you're happy about him marrying me. The fact that he lied about it instead of telling you the truth is not good. I never fear closeness with my male friends. Azeez to, first it was me but now is my cousin, She recently break up with his girlfriend after 4year of relationship, She was so hurt and i gave her Lord. You don't have to force yourself to like something you don't, but you can choose to realize this is who you married, you love him, you trust him, and just focus on the great parts of your marriage. I stated to my now husband that I finally realized that I didn't want to be with a man who could not let go of another woman and I didn't want to share my man.
If you don't have that to give, you are in danger of your marriage failing, of someone else stepping in and becoming that for them, If you have doubt, if you are feeling insecure, then its a time to reach out for help, to me, to my book, The Landlines to Goldmines Playbook for Couples, or to another therapist. Any comments are welcome since husband says I am paranoid. Please note I've only kept an eye on the friendship they have had because it was inappropriate. It was very hard because the trust was already damaged before and now it had taken another hit. One girl, was a girl he used to go to the cinema with. Also if it makes you uncomfortable with the situation and your partner does not acknowledge your feelings and gets angry and defensive then that could be a problem. When he met me she was still with her boyfriend, then they split so she was single while me and him were still together.
His friends--male and female--mean a lot to him. At this point the kind of girl she is becomes obvious to me and I lose more respect and confidence in her being a lady. He should walk away but never wants to hurt feelings. Even a marriage that is built on a foundation of faith in Christ and has relatively few problems is not immune to extra-marital temptations. He texts her and sees her often at work. This will make you more interesting to yourself and your husband.
That was 4 years ago and I find myself sick of him now. It is probably the attention she gives him that makes him want to spend time with her , instead of you. Needless to say, he won the argument because he made me feel untrusting and controlling about his relationship with this girl. I have already done this with my husband. To pick a wildly random example. I cant see anyone putting up with that.
One of my best friends is of the opposite gender and she's married to a friend from high school. The flip side of this, married men who for whatever reason act inappropriately. This is just my advise though but i think u should stop making an issue about this woman. A reader, anonymous, writes 1 October 2010 : I know how you feel, I do not have much experience as I married the only man I have ever kissed. There are manipulative and destructive woman, married or not that this is measly a game to them.
But that being said, it sounds like there is a large chunk of his life that he is not allowing you to be a part of, and what is up with the not wearing the wedding ring? I really don't think it's that bad to have friends but with all Respect to your partner. We had a party inviting all his coworkers…. Is he obsessed with her? I am in this situation right now. I was friendly with men but never to the point this woman is taking it with my husband. When my girfriend returned, she spent the car ride home incessantly texting all her friends from the trip, especially the new guy best friend. Are they spending too much time together? I have agreed to let him be friends because he would be resentful if I didn't. Instead, we kiss dating goodbye and with dating, the ability to use our frontal lobes.