Search engines are free to index and cache our content. But anyways, we were both in high school and had the same group of friends, in the same social circle. It is different as people get into the later years where the age doesn't matter so much as life experiences to draw from. It can be a noble, beautiful thing. I know that there are alot of nay sayers but i say go for it because love doesnt have an age just try to get to know the guy well and dont rush into sex your not ready for it yet! I've always looked longingly at older men but never thought they were within my grasp until I got into college where I started to date and pursue older guys as I was around them more often. I guess that put a stop to her insistence,and she has become more withdrawn,and avoids me now. I've been at both ends of the spectrum.
A 21-year-old teaching assistant adopting a professorial role to get in the pants of a 17-year-old freshman may not be a predator, but he is certainly a creep. Not unless the parent who is in favor of the marriage has sole and complete cust … ody of the minor female. It doesn't really stop intil college and my current boyfreind is 10 years older then me and my friends think he's too old but he's the youngest I've been with. Keep in mind that the parents will probably not have a favorable opinion of you from the outset. Some comments here made me almost cry. Too much potential damage to his life otherwise.
I am 19 years old, and I am the same way. He's married and has 2 kids, but he constantly stared at me and I loved it. It's not something I go for. He also said that he couldn't even look at other women right now because he was so into me. I don't have a problem with being attracted to older guys, i think its great. I am the same way, i am also 16. Now, my current is 25 and I am 45.
I am fascinated by that. Though haven't yet been able to express that desire. It sounds as though your views of each other differ, so that may be a problem. I find the company of a man my age also sexy and much more satisfying. I do a lot of theater and have been doing this for a long time, so I'm mostly around people much older than myself. We've beed together for almost 8 months, and we love each other very much.
I didn't find people in their early twenties all that attractive either. A female reader, anonymous, writes 28 August 2009 : Hi there, I'm 14. No matter what the relationship, there will be problems and things you have to sort out. Unless there is some science to support that arbitrary number, I think the age of consent is the age at which a man is mature enough to handle an adult relationship, as well as the responsibilities of being an adult. And to the 40 year old guy who posted about 16 year old girls asking him to take him home, don't look a gift horse in the mouth! And I'm not half good-looking either. A female reader, , writes 7 June 2008 : aspr221 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks again for responding everyone! Always look after yourself and protect your well being before others. It's not an insurmountable problem but it's something you'll struggle with until your mid 20s or so.
Most of my attractions to guys within my age range have not been nearly to the same extent of the ones to the ones older than myself. His partner was me in my late 30s. He basically wrote a bunch of paragraphs abt how he really liked me, but it made me kind of uncomfortable because of the age difference, I guess. It is not always about us or me. I had a father throughout my life, so I also believe it doesn't have anything to do with lack of a father figure. If I was in a room with an 18 yr old and a 38 yr old, I'd look at the 38 yr old first. Well I just haven't mentioned my age to him because it had never been brought up.
He is 27 and I am 15, as I said. I don't know what to do, because while it is rather illegal for me to be with older men, I don't like the younger boys, and i don't think I should have to be unhappy. While dating is legal, that is seeing each other socially, any physical relationship is not leg … al. I know that there are alot of nay sayers but i say go for it because love doesnt have an age just try to get to know the guy well and dont rush into sex your not ready for it yet! A man in jail doesn't buy diapers and formula, or make a good daddy, and a criminal record may inhibit him from getting a good job and providing support when he gets out of jail. If you try and do something about it now, these men you are after can get into a lot of trouble. What surprised me later on I've recently been crushing on my teacher who is a musician and has shared many of the same interests as me, has seen the world and I want to learn more about him, but I always felt the age gap was an issue.
How exactly you are supporting him? The young man retributes with his beauty, the freshness of youth and his eargerness to love. I guess I just love a guy that's been through things I have not yet and can give me more insight into life. Also, because my school was several hours away from home, I only ever really went home in the holidays, and thus didn't see my father very often at all. Which is obviously superior to a patchy-ass beard. His mother says I make him happy so the relationship is fine with her.
He can grow a non-patchy-ass beard. Fact the first: thoughts are not wrong. If you own up and take responsibility, the parents may likely see that putting you in jail would not be good for the child, their daughter, or the situation in general. Hope it works out for you too! Now what if two boys, 6 months apart in age, begin having consensual sex at puberty, around age 12. Hey there 502, This thread is interesting, because I am 21 and my girlfriend is 17, so the same age gap as you. Also, thank you to the anonymous female who posted about men who aren't bothered by the age difference and aren't leches.
Even now, at 20 and 22 there are significant differences. Colleges went berserk, everyone rebelled, did drugs, had sex. Since nobody can agree on the appropriate age, they should be done away with. I have self-respect, I am not going to be used or use someone. I'm not a social historian, but here's roughly how things went, in my humble opinion: Ancient history: Men hunted, women stayed home. Wouldn't give me a second look, and stopped taking showers after class. I too have developed a crush on a teacher who is 38.