Ditch the Script Tell your girlfriend or wife you want to go three sack sessions sans penetration. Bored of the same old sexts? Slowly kiss your way down his torso, and just as you get to his pelvis, move back up to his ears and neck. Reach around and use your fingertips or the flat of your hand along and between her legs in up-and-down, side-to-side, and figure-8 moves. Bring out the candles and fluffy towels, then put two drops of patchouli oil, three drops of sandalwood oil, and three drops of lavender oil into your bathwater. Funny thing about adulthood: Spontaneous desk sex is hot, but clearing the desk beforehand in order to avoid any postcoital broken tchotchkes or destroyed tea rose arrangements is not. Find your way in order by using your fingertips and mouth. Ask him to trace his tongu e over your thin-skinned spots: wrists, inner knees, behind your ears.
Unleash a New Skill If you've got a new sexual skill, by all means, break it out. And forget the myth that it's only for older women — all the cool kids are doing it! In reverse-cowgirl, lean back instead of forward toward his feet. They have withstood the test of time because they work. Heighten Her Arousal with Smell Spray a touch of the cologne that she loves on the sheets. For example, when you're on your back with your legs bent upwards, your vaginal canal is shortened. In the missionary position, barely penetrate her vagina or focus on shallow thrusts. Ditch the eye contact in reverse cowgirl.
For a truly sensual and erotic experience try this —Nitya Lacroix, author of The next time you go out with your man, Sometimes you have to remind your guy that you're a prize, not an appendage. The snugger fit will make your vagina feel tighter, his penis feel bigger, and create a whole lot of friction fun you both will enjoy, says Judy Dutton, author of book. It'll arouse him even more to see you taking control of his movements. Asking complicated questions can inhibit the progress. The message will be received. You can try all the positions you want, or you can call up the world's foremost sex doctors and ask them for their one surefire trick in the bedroom.
Believe it or not, men do want foreplay action. Make sure you're up-to-speed on the most luxurious adult toys you can enjoy together. Rest Your Hand on Her Knee When you're sitting next to your girlfriend or wife in the car, touch her nonsexually. Are we all doing it? Play an Intramural Sport Join an intramurals sports league. As you graduate from makeouts to oral to intercourse and back? And when we say a few nights, we mean a few nights.
Better yet, talk about a mind-blowing moment to let her know it was worth remembering. Find out—then bring your favorite moves to your next sex session. Start getting it on during the commercials of your favorite show, then untangle as soon as the show comes back. But there are some specific ways to ensure that your bedroom action will be as pleasurable as possible for you and your partner. The Rabbit gets all the glory, but using a bullet vibe on your clit during doggy is a total game changer. I'm quite fond of being on top. It's a primo G-spot angle for you and the illusion of a Kardashi-ass for him.
It's time to learn how to talk it out. It'll plant some passion-packed seeds for later. Plus, reading about sex can also be a great way to get you in the mood. Most recently, I was getting ready for a girls' night out and had my friends picking me up in 20 minutes, and my partner pinned me on the bed and rocked my world orgasms for both of us in 10 minutes. Not only are you hitting a series of new hot spots for both of you with each different angle, but he'll dig the 360-degree view of your gorgeous bod. Don't Ditch Friends and Family Stay connected to those who know you best.
One study revealed that a couple's chance of climaxing increases by 80 percent when they're wearing socks because they're more comfortable. And what one person likes, another might hate. Naturally, with age comes a longer sexual history as well and many infections can remain dormant for years. Set the precedent and make sure you come first. Mean while, use your hands to grip, squeeze, and stroke the length of his penis. So go ahead, leave those puppies on — in fact, get some.
This is great for putting an emphasis on foreplay. Start the action off with your vibe's lowest setting and then slowly increase the intensity as his arousal grows. In fact, research shows that they want at least 18 minutes of it, while we all thought they only wanted 13, according to Judy Dutton, author of. While standing with your back against his chest, have him reach around and touch you so all you can see are his hands all over you — totally sexy. She has beautiful feet and wears a lot of high heels.
So hot you might pass out? But it's sensitive during arousal. Get sex on the brain by reading a steamy book before a date. It also helps guys achieve fuller, harder erections. If he guesses a flavor right, reward him with some manual stimulation, suggests Cadell. To become an X-rated seductress, wear something red or black in sheer fabric or lace, then add crimson lipstick and nails.