It started to become romantic but we needed to actually meet, he flew to Georgia for a weekend and we hit it off. We married in our 30s. He completes me so well, his strengths are my weaknesses and vice versa. As much as you are uncomfortable with our feelings that we are usually very expressive about because we're naturally passionate, impulsive and hot-tempered, and with our impulsiveness that makes it hard for you to predict our behavior and you always think you have to try to predict everything, so we are uncomfortable with you not showing any emotion and even trying to submit things that evidently can't be rationalized, like emotions and relationships, into some kind of patterns and strategies. Yeah nvm just talking to myself then.
But as you experience more of life, you'll find it makes more and more sense, to date someone very different to you, and then you'll find yourself the oddball, for trying not to date them. My friend and I are practically platonic life-partners at this point so this makes me chuckle. It is a terrible thing to do to another human being and an unhealthy way to live. During initial stress they may be prone to working long hours, overeating, over exercising—overindulging in general—and obsessing over things that previously were not important to them. But you'll still think of yourself as the oddball, and everyone else as the sane ones in life.
It is only doomed if both the intp and the esfj do not fully know and recognize their weak points and try to overcome them. They enjoy life and being around people. They just want to be happy, and want to bring happiness to others. So everything I said took on this importance because he was working so hard to figure me out. Use Ni please for your sake.
She just too bossy and control freak, on top of that very dramatic. Both duals feel something like an internal joy, that fills up the soul. And it's been pretty good. We are not your stressball to squeeze, we are not a dog you can kick the life out off because you had a bad day at work. Have you read the title? However the more passive ones may still not perform them.
The high standards they hold themselves to, may also be expected of others, and they can be condescending or highly critical of those who fail to measure up. They naturally live for the moment and sensory stimulation, which means they thrive in the time when everything is new and exciting. I am not him, he is not me, and you should be discussing this with him. She never followed through on all her promises. And they can can be pretty thankful for your advice if they have an emotional dilemma and they need a rational perspective, if you're on their side that is.
But on the other hand he annoys me as fuck. Their outgoing nature and attention to others can be applied, including fields such as healthcare, entertainment, service industries and teaching. Hollande would be hard to type based on the material available. Also, all the cognitive functions are in different priorities. This can be a disadvantage to their relationship with feeling types, who are more sensitive to emotional content.
They may not always fulfill one another in these desires. We work best in our highest functions and should only sparingly and in a controlled manner utilize Fe. Their conscious functions are your subconscious functions. I'll admit I took pause when I read the physically attractive part, but people are fucking weird man. I love how you not only described our life style but what kind of jobs that we are most like to take and how we are most like to be as parents!! You observe this sensation and you cannot mix it with something up. They only question something when there is a practical need for it. You also need to remember that you are not your beliefs, and it's not wrong for someone to change their beliefs when given new information.
Have you actually ever taken a second to try to understand the guy? You should be able to throw a rock and hit us. When you are offended, try to bring it up to them in a very calm, understanding way. But you can also see why they often have a bad reputation. How the fuck am i supposed to know, romantic compatibility is far more than some stupid facebooktest-tier personality test. Or I wonder if they don't understand why I said or did something, why don't they just do the socially obvious thing in that situation - ask me to explain instead of inventing theories and assuming things and modifying their behavior towards me to go with those theories that are often absurd. They should take care that this doesn't interfere with their personal relationships, since many of the others types will not be able to relate to their perspectives on these matters.